Relationship issues please help I don't know what to do.

Are you still there Sam

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Sam Amandi wants me to prove something to her can u see what it is.

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I can let you know what the other psychic all told me if u want Sam

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hi eric i know this may be hard for you to swallow but i only see friendship for you both as welll nothing more i will say treat her nice but no expectations from it i know this is hard for you but you have lead your own life and let her lead her own hugs i hope this helps

It was a on and off again relationship for a year. She has severe depression. What is it that she wants me to prove to her.

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she only says that so you will give her some free space i know you may not want to hear this but she has to look after herself for a while to get herself better this is something that goes along with what she has i suggest you give her the space and i will say this you seem to be clingy and that doesnt help the issue at hand i see her trying to work on herself which is needed let her do this that is what love is about giving the person time for themselves i wont say you will get back together i see friendship only but you do tend to not think for yourself as well you need to work on that and try to give her that space as someone who cares about her

I'm going to give her the time she needs. I see why she needs the space. It is a healthy thing to help a person grow mentally. I have learned my lesson on being clingy. I have learned many lessons

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Eric wrote:I'm going to give her the time she needs. I see why she needs the space. It is a healthy thing to help a person grow mentally. I have learned my lesson on being clingy. I have learned many lessons

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Good :) I completely agree with you. Sometimes time apart and for healing will help in the long run. It's not your fault, we can all be clingy. Sometimes after difficulties we just need time apart like is happening now;

I don't feel she hates you at all. I just agree she needs space and her depression is probably not helping. If you do get a chance to talk to her i'd just recommend leaving the conversation open. Questions ''How are you'' .. compliments ''You've been missed'' followed by ''Hope you have a great summer, did you have any plans?''

That way it's just open, know what I mean. Closed conversations are tricky in these circumstances. Just be yourself.. keep it casual, warm, friendly, and you are doing the best thing by giving time and space

I'm sure SamJ will do your cards tomorrow, too

Ok thank you cloud I appreciate it very much. I didn't love her in the right way first. I'm starting to learn how to though. I'm going to give her what she needs in all aspects anymore. I want her to see me for the positive person I am. I will also be patient with her next time. Thank you for the advice cloud. If you got anymore words for me plz feel free to tell me.

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Eric wrote:Ok thank you cloud I appreciate it very much. I didn't love her in the right way first. I'm starting to learn how to though. I'm going to give her what she needs in all aspects anymore. I want her to see me for the positive person I am. I will also be patient with her next time. Thank you for the advice cloud. If you got anymore words for me plz feel free to tell me.

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I understand

Sometimes everything is clearer in hindsight. We've all been there, we look back and we see we made faults
I think problems arise when we deny we were ever at fault. It's something else to see where we did go wrong and admit to it.. especially in relationships, i'm sure she appreciates (or will) the fact you see that It was not just her but was both of you and things you were both facing

No denying you were probably feeling pressures with difficulties in your own life, I understand that too

Sometimes when we're having a hard time, in your circumstances..we just clash and things become tense with those closest to us

And with Amandi having depression that just adds on in the sense that, well, emotions are haywire, we feel so deeply, think so deeply, with depression.
And again ... we can also have clouded thoughts and sometimes just need to be alone for a while to find clarity again. This time apart, see it as a positive. It's for the best right now

It seems bleak because you're not talking
But in this distance and silence you are both healing and reflecting

It can only help you both

That is kind of you to say cloud and inspiring. I think Amandi and I have both learned a lot. I always told her that I will listen and be there for her now I need to show that to her.

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