hi im posting for my best friend kellie who needs some guidance please. she believes in spirituality.
she has just discovered she is pregnant with her 6th child, she has lost a baby before which was very difficult for her and a few of these births have been very difficult and traumatic for her.
I think she wants this baby but she has strong fears that she is going to die during the birth and also fears if she has the baby then she will not be able to cope. a few of her children have special needs.
so she is thinking that abortion would be the best option, I have tried not to give my opinion too strongly as I am against abortion but have told her she needs to have a real good think about both sides of the coin here, and asked how how she thinks she would feel after having the abortion.
at the end of the day if she has the baby, she may struggle, find it difficult etc but there is always opportunity for change and for things to turn out ok thinking positively even if at the beginning things are rocky.
but if she has the abortion this is final, permanent, nothing can ever change tht decision she has made and she will need to live with it.
I know what I would do but she is not me, I cannot tell her what to do, only she can do this for herself.
I have also advised her to tell her doctor that she is thinking of a abortion and they will point her towards counselling who will talk her through everything.
please can anyone read into this situation from a personal or spiritual point of view pls, thank you x
she has just discovered she is pregnant with her 6th child, she has lost a baby before which was very difficult for her and a few of these births have been very difficult and traumatic for her.
I think she wants this baby but she has strong fears that she is going to die during the birth and also fears if she has the baby then she will not be able to cope. a few of her children have special needs.
so she is thinking that abortion would be the best option, I have tried not to give my opinion too strongly as I am against abortion but have told her she needs to have a real good think about both sides of the coin here, and asked how how she thinks she would feel after having the abortion.
at the end of the day if she has the baby, she may struggle, find it difficult etc but there is always opportunity for change and for things to turn out ok thinking positively even if at the beginning things are rocky.
but if she has the abortion this is final, permanent, nothing can ever change tht decision she has made and she will need to live with it.
I know what I would do but she is not me, I cannot tell her what to do, only she can do this for herself.
I have also advised her to tell her doctor that she is thinking of a abortion and they will point her towards counselling who will talk her through everything.
please can anyone read into this situation from a personal or spiritual point of view pls, thank you x