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Hi I'm confused. I've been married for 18 years. I recently started grad school and met someone that I'm super attracted to and the feeling is mutual. I'd like to explore this but I need guidance.

Hi Nury234

Welcome to Mystic-Sisterhood, great to have you join us

My overall feelings:

It's clear from your post that things between you and your husband have proved difficult over the past few years though yes, I do feel this person at school is attracted to you. My feeling though is that whilst you are both attracted to one another I don't really feel it would go very far .. they like you a lot but I also feel this person can't really be trusted, plus, I feel once you have both finished they are likely to move away , possibly abroad, which I feel would make it difficult, I also feel you would have some regrets later on down the line

I drew a card for you and Ace of cups showed. This has various meanings but does tell of feelings growing, overall I would never tell you what to decide in love as I believe we should always follow our hearts, but there is a lot to look at here
18 years together shows you two have been going strong, it's very good
But I also understand that love comes and we can't stop it. Ask yourself is this love, is this what I really want?
Our feelings are natural and life is short after all, we need to be with who makes us happy, doing what makes us happy. I would say my answer is to give this more time, it's early days, spend some time in meditation and reflect, go within and listen to the guiding voice that always has your best interests at heart

If you do decide to be with this person, consider that feelings will grow, there probably will be a set back of not wanting to go overseas or move the long distance

So if you do, make your future plans clear and make sure you know theirs

The ace of cups also signals a possible unwanted pregnancy- i'm unsure of your age and wishes in future when it comes to family but I thought I would mention that

It also mentions parties and celebrations , there is a chance you may go to a party with this person you mention in your post, and this party or celebratory occasion will be a good time to tell them how you feel- or to have this talk about future plans you both have.

To be sure you are both on the same page, to prevent further disagreements or upset in future

I'm unsure which year they are in but the moving away could even mean a change of location after they have finished school, I feel there's a chance you could part ways but if you pursue this there is always room for you to both reconsider future plans (and locations) and make it work.

It must be tough for you to consider this head over heart, heart over head, but just forgive yourself for feeling this, emotions are like waves, we can't stop them, only ride the tides as they come until we reach the destination we'd like to be at.

Short answer is.. it could go further, spend more time thinking, and definitely be sure you and him are on the same page to prevent further confusion or upset later down the line


Hope this helps you out, good luck.. and if you have any more questions or need me to explain anything just let me know


Take care

Cloud

Thank you Cloud. Very insightful.You truly understand how I feel. While the attraction is extremely intense and overwhelming at least on my end.You've given me something else to consider. An unwanted pregnancy. My husband and I cannot have anymore children he had a vasectomy. This leads me to believe that my new friend and I could get pregnant if we took it to an intimate level. I will take it slow and think this through. I'll keep the relationship friendly for now. I won't pursue. BTW his birthday is Quadrell Conerly June 2,1980 and Mine is September 12th, 1980 Is thereanything else I should know?

Nury234 wrote:Thank you Cloud. Very insightful.You truly understand how I feel. While the attraction is extremely intense and overwhelming  at least on my end.You've given me something else to consider. An unwanted pregnancy. My husband and I cannot have anymore children he had a vasectomy. This leads me to believe that my new friend and I could get pregnant if we took it to an intimate level. I will take it slow and think this through. I'll keep the relationship friendly for now. I won't pursue. BTW his birthday is Quadrell Conerly June 2,1980 and Mine is September 12th, 1980 Is thereanything else I should know?

Yes I wouldn't normally mention it, only because it comes under medical pointers and I rarely mention those but something tells me it's a possibility

I do understand no judgement here, it must be very difficult after so long
But there's no guilt in that, life is forever changing, sometimes we let people go, sometimes they are here to stay.. it's ok to love someone from a distance and it's ok to do what's best

I will come back to this soon and let you know if anything else should come

Take care
Cloud

Thank you so much!

Hello Cloud,

So a couple of weeks have pasted. I've been in meditation and prayer. Just working through all of this. Is there anything else that you're getting from this? I think he might be my twin flame so I'm working through that as well.