empaths and love

Is it common for empaths to get attached and fall in love extremely quickly.

I seem to do this ever time, sick of getting my heart hurt.

its like my soul just connects to anothers and that's it im in love lol

this new guy I like, seems to like me, told me he does, I know he has a lot of issues with his kids mum
he has custody of them and also owns a business, he has also just been offered a home and has the keys, so I knw he is super busy.

we aren't together yet, and even though I know hes busy im super pissed that he cant even send me a hi or something, 4th day now with no message from him.

I don't know what to think, he has mentioned me before me coming to his when he has his own place and says he would like to go out and do something and also would love me to help him with his business

but im not feeling this lack of communication shit, or is this common for men to not really communicate tht much, expecially if busy?

sorry guys don't mean to be rude, its just every man I know seems to do this to me, or maybe its just me being a impatient bitch lol.

Hmm

4th day of contact I admit .. after all he's said to you about liking you/making plans for the future (leading you to believe he's serious).. four days of no contact is pushing it a little bit

But...


He may be busy with the kids,... maybe he also fears that he comes across as being too clingy.... maybe he's just dealing with something he's not mentioned.. it could be anything I suppose. . big or small.. maybe he's upset or struggling in some way (males don't really express it the same ways we do, they tend to sometimes keep it to themselves especially with potential or new partners, I imagine they would be unlikely to share with you... even If they wanted to..

Again though i'm just thinking and considering what else it could be...

Have you reached out to him? if so, do you know if he's read your messages?

I don't think you are the problem

thanks cloud, funny thing is when I seem to lose the plot over it , he seems to message, the last 3 times ive asked the angels what the hell is going on he tends to message within minutes, weird huh?

he sent me pics of his new house, has been very busy on it as well as having the 3 kids running around, plus his business so I guess that's his main priority, ill have to wait and see what happens once he has moved in and settled a bit x

that would explain it again then

I think he'll be in touch again ... Even unpacking can be exhausting add on three kids I bet he's so tired. You are lovely, I would hope he would be honest with you if there was another. Don't stress ... I think we stress too much ... if he's sent you pics that's a good sign. See how things are in three days, i'd say a week max is definitely off

ok I will try to be patient lol

Thank you for sharing this astral. It is very hard
to be an empath and find love . True love. When we fall we fall in love or like someone and think could this be the “one.” I am the same way. It’s quick and then confusion often sets in. Why are they not calling or texting back? Do they like me as much as I like them..... the list goes on. To find balance.. which is easier said than done. One must have PMA! It starts with that. All the best with him . You are not alone and it will work out one way or another.

thnk you, but what is pma lol

Yes PMA!

Positive Mental Attitude

aww nice yes im trying lol

Me too not easy is it ? lol
Just hoping to find that one person.
Hope springs eternal!

no its not, good luck , im sure there is someone out there for u and for me, but I miss this guy, just waiting to see if he ever contacts me again lol