Looking for closure and insight

Hello I’m looking for insights and closure to my nagging gut feelings. Husband and I 30 years together. I believe he has someone he has interest in, it just nags at me. He accuses me of emotionally cheating 5 years ago I didn’t cheat. We fight all the time, my question is wondering if husband ever cheat or kept ones from me, and is he currently having feelings for anyone else, thanks so much he Pete 02/25/1970 and myself Yvonne 06/22/1970

Hi Yvonne

The short answer is, I feel you are both safe and I am shown green light for go ahead. Your intuition may be linking to something in the past. You said you have been together 30 years (congratulations!) I don't see him cheating, in the past, or present, but I do see a glimpse into the past, around 12 years ago. Would you understand someone who was in your lives back then who would have tried to come between you both?. It seems to be around the early 2000's, between 2003-2006. Seems this person is long out of the picture. I don't feel your husband is cheating, there's no feeling of anxiety or guilt coming to me from him, and I can also sense that you are completely loyal to him as well. That makes me happy

I don't feel as though he has feelings for anyone, it doesn't stand out. But I also wonder if you would understand arguments about him talking to a female from his past?
Again I don't feel it's an emotional affair either. Just long winded casual conversation, but I can see from this why you would worry, after all the arguments are intense sometimes and I feel you are lacking in self confidence

I see you two together in the long run, still. :) I still feel the love is there as it always has been, but stressors are putting a strain on your relationship, I don't feel he's cheating or has cheated on you

I hope this helps you Yvonne, let me know if there's anything more I can do for you both

He loves you

This made me happy thank you so much!

You're welcome, happy I could help you out a bit Yvonne