Giving Up On LOVE

A Savage Beauty wrote:Every since I begin dating at 17 it's never been a fairy tale lol. I feel as though every guy I've ever dated has left me in the cold. I've let go of the relationships I've had in high school. Now that I'm older relationships have become so nasty. I've had to deal all  forms of abuse, envy,  jealousy and more than you can imagine. I want to give up so badly but all I've ever wanted to be is a loving wife and mother. This might sound crazy but I wouldn't feel complete if left this world without accomplishing the one thing I've always yearned for. I'm asking for some advice or just a little help from Spirit with this. I don't want to bitter about numerous heartbreaks. I would greatly greatly appreciate any help, advice,  Spirit Messages.
Thank You ALL
Coco Ari

Hi Ari

Sorry to hear all you've been through. I wouldn't say i'm the best with love advice as my love life consists of a duvet & cup of tea but here goes

Good on you for letting the toxic relationships (and people ) go. You are way too lovely to have anyone hurt you in any way and life is so short... having spent years myself picking up pieces and trying to heal, it's really not worth it and there's strength in accepting that some people will never change. We can be left to feel as though we are the ones at fault but please trust me when I say this.. you are not the problem

These negative people knocked your confidence over time but you will regain it again I promise.
People who are jealous of you are unhappy themselves and I hear you, I have never understood those who go around wrecking others' lives because they are unhappy in their own. You have a lot going for you. There is this one quote.. (I know, not staying bitter is great) but I think we need a period of healing, and it's ok to be angry in your healing. Upset too. It's ok to grieve for all that was - and wasn't...... in the end though you are going to come through this stronger than ever, most confident you have ever been and you will eventually live your dreams of being a wife and mom , I know that for sure

I'm not sure when the most recent relationship / break up was but it must have been recent. Sorry you have been through so much I would just say this.... love yourself, a lot
Believe in yourself, a lot
Trust it's ok to grieve all that was and all that never was in your relationships
Please don't listen to the cruel words said to you, let it go over your head- those people are not worth a wasted minute or a breath. In the end they will usually continue their unhealthy patterns, just with another handful of partners until (god forbid) they wake up and notice they are at fault. But now that you have split, it's time to focus on yourself
You have so much going for you and yes you will meet the one you've been waiting for

This right now, see it as a period of self healing. Do all the things you wanted to do, do what makes you happy, put yourself first, and do what it takes to heal. This is the important part
Cry it out, talk it out, forgive yourself
Surround yourself with people who love you
and trust... that's the bottom line, you need to trust that the universe has it all set out for you and it's going to happen. Can't say when but it will.... it's going to work out, God/Universe has got your back. Just take care of you for now


You're going to do just fine

You've done great

Take care

C

Purplemoon86 wrote:Hello

Never give up on love, I personally found when you really want something, you never seem to get it, but when you start concentrating on yourself and not letting what you don't have eat you away! BOOM, it happens!

There is someone for everyone in this world! it sounds like you have had to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince....

When you finally find the one, you will see it was totally worth the wait

Love & Hugs

Purplemoon

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