Choose a brand new candle, can be any you like. You are welcome to use any coloured candle that you wish to, bearing in mind the colours can be important. White is a good coloured candle to use as it replaces other colours which are needed in spell work. If you needed red candles or black, and had none, white would still work wonders so they are great to keep. Whether a tealight candle or a pillar/taper candle.
This is a very short and simple ritual for you to cleanse yourself of negativity sent your way by an ex partner
I know just how bad it can be when someone is sending negativity your way. Being sensitive, it can give you headaches, you may feel low, anxious, may not sleep well, or be overly fatigued the whole time.
So hold your candle and state your intent
''God, Goddess, Great Spirit, Archangels, Ascended Masters (Edit as necessary)
I thank you today for hearing my intent and for helping me to heal. My intention is for all negativity to return threefold to thee who has sent it my way. May positive return to those who wish me well, and whilst I wish to harm none, may those who are casting negativity over me, have it return back immediately''
Light your candle and visualize the person who you believe / or (know) has sent you negativity/wished you harm/
Hold this intention for a moment:
I am not wishing to harm anybody. I am not hexing anybody. I am shedding what is no longer mine, I am returning and rebounding negativity sent my way. Thank you
This is important as our Intent is very powerful. Wishing negativity back will only make your life harder. So instead of wishing revenge, simply wish that the energy will be rebounded and trust once done so, your job is done.
As you watch your candle repeat the following twice
''my intention is to transmute all negativity that is around me right now, my ex partner (name name) will now leave me be, their energy will not get to me, the heaviness will now leave, i'll be free to breathe, and nothing dark will get to me.! ''
.. and this is my will ... so mote it be''
Leave your candle to burn for as long as you wish. They say leaving it to burn fully will increase the strength so feel free to, but trust that even if you blow it out soon, your job is done as that was your intention.
As you blow out your candle, give thanks.
I do not recommend using this candle again, so throw it/ bury it/ get rid of it any way, however if you do keep it, make sure it is for the same purpose as last time (to repeat this)
It helps to have candles for specific uses, just as we program gemstones..
Good luck
This is a very short and simple ritual for you to cleanse yourself of negativity sent your way by an ex partner
I know just how bad it can be when someone is sending negativity your way. Being sensitive, it can give you headaches, you may feel low, anxious, may not sleep well, or be overly fatigued the whole time.
So hold your candle and state your intent
''God, Goddess, Great Spirit, Archangels, Ascended Masters (Edit as necessary)
I thank you today for hearing my intent and for helping me to heal. My intention is for all negativity to return threefold to thee who has sent it my way. May positive return to those who wish me well, and whilst I wish to harm none, may those who are casting negativity over me, have it return back immediately''
Light your candle and visualize the person who you believe / or (know) has sent you negativity/wished you harm/
Hold this intention for a moment:
I am not wishing to harm anybody. I am not hexing anybody. I am shedding what is no longer mine, I am returning and rebounding negativity sent my way. Thank you
This is important as our Intent is very powerful. Wishing negativity back will only make your life harder. So instead of wishing revenge, simply wish that the energy will be rebounded and trust once done so, your job is done.
As you watch your candle repeat the following twice
''my intention is to transmute all negativity that is around me right now, my ex partner (name name) will now leave me be, their energy will not get to me, the heaviness will now leave, i'll be free to breathe, and nothing dark will get to me.! ''
.. and this is my will ... so mote it be''
Leave your candle to burn for as long as you wish. They say leaving it to burn fully will increase the strength so feel free to, but trust that even if you blow it out soon, your job is done as that was your intention.
As you blow out your candle, give thanks.
I do not recommend using this candle again, so throw it/ bury it/ get rid of it any way, however if you do keep it, make sure it is for the same purpose as last time (to repeat this)
It helps to have candles for specific uses, just as we program gemstones..
Good luck