Give us your best Break-up advice

So break ups are sadly common theme on psychic sites and understandably so , it's one of the main reasons people visit us to get some guidance and help

So I thought i'd ask,

What would your best advice be to someone who has just gone through a divorce or a tough break up after a long time with their partner?

Peer to peer support is sometimes the best , it's never a bad idea to put your thoughts together. Hearing others ideas can sometimes help us see our problems from a new perspective

I would say

take care of yourself, grieve all you need, and take one day at a time

To remember not take insults personally
To remember that you tried your best
That others in your life love and care about you,
That it's ok to feel angry, confused, upset, or even wanting revenge, but that revenge is really not worth it. What is done is done and really the best way is the calm way. Leaving peacefully is better for you, for them, and for anyone else involved

On taking a break: I think this is really important before a new relationship, giving yourself time to heal and build up your emotional strength again, putting your life back in order so you can move on. . That might mean channelling your energy out into a project or sports or something similar but make sure it's focused on you and you only. Give yourself the time you need to feel better and surround yourself with friends who make you feel good about yourself.

im hopeless at relationships, no experience of lng term ones, my longest was 4 years but it was like a part time relationship lol.

my advice would be to allow yourself that sadness, loss of a relationship isn't the same as a death but it kind of feels like it so I guess its good to allow yourself to grieve.

don't blame yourself and don't blame the other partner, just review the problems and why the break up happened, be sad and then try to focus on things you enjoy in life.

I think all relationships are lessons.
they teach us what we don't want in a relationship and also what we do want, they also teach us about our own faults and insecurities.
we can learn from them and grow from them to be better and to find better partners.

Hey, how are you all doing? In my opinion, I think the best thing to do after a breakup is to focus on yourself. Don't be harsh on yourself. Take it easy. Do what makes you happy. Build yourself stronger then ever so no one would ever break you down again. Thank you for reading :)

Maryal1 wrote:Hey, how are you all doing? In my opinion, I think the best thing to do after a breakup is to focus on yourself. Don't be harsh on yourself. Take it easy. Do what makes you happy. Build yourself stronger then ever so no one would ever break you down again. Thank you for reading :)

Hi Maryal

I agree with you
Allowing yourself time and space to heal is important

don't be harsh on yourself