Why do we have failed relationships that hurt?

I see so many suffering on failed relationships ,
And many who walked out knowing it was right thing to do , bit feel hurt or betrayed after such a mishap and encounter.
Why?
I understand about growing n stuff but why do we even attract such relationships ?
I have personally felt like failing at so many ....my personal relationship....i fear marriage will work .
I don't know , but j have started doubting .
But then doubting never helped eventually I would accept whatever may happen ,may happen and do it.
It may sound brave ....but it's killing.
Why is it people never want to confront their loved ones and want to cahnge the world. ..whereas the change should also taken a knocking at their doorstep.

I feel to naive and outdated for the shrewd world I live in.

Aww Renaud I hope you can work things out it hurts because we love that person sending love and hugs xxxxxx

It makes me sad that people who have special ablitys like phychic or astrology or medium or clairvoyant etc...even for entertament purposes ...use their ability to take money from people ..I feel it should be used to help people!!! for example not naming any names but I requested a reading for astrolgy by email that I found on the internet ...and most of them start of saying nice things then they say bad things and that they are your friend and they need to do a spell for 99 dollors to help me to be happy and that I could have lots of money this part of the reading makes me feel just disappointed i didnt even say money was an issue and was just interested in the nurmolgy and the universe side of things,,,I mean lam open mined and I do like to hear what they have to say even for entertament purposes...but the money part I think is terrible,,,I have payed money to go to shows that are run by mediums and it was worth it , it helped people I had fun closure comfort and left with some sort of understanding I also gained some knowledge ...but paying money to remove karmic debts etc just can't belive these people...who else feels this way? Or has been in this situation...Its riping people off those in need and despite who are venerable

Please don't take this the wrong way if your reading this,because I love all these kind of things magical and spiritual stuff ,meditation,and different believes and cultures...but the ones that say to people they can make things better or do some sort of ritual for money ,,I don't like this..be live it or not people have actually payed money their was even reviews,,,I think it's wrong ...a bit like those doctors who claim they can cure cancer and stuff I have heard of this before as well

We don't charge on this site its free readings Missy x

Thanks button that's why I love this site,,,but their are others on Google sites I don't want to name them but just make people aware of my thoughts lol that I think is just diapointing to me I think it's wrong,,,I know if I had learnt how to use my ablitys I would want to help people ..but this site is beautiful it dose help people with everything and anything it's so supportive and even knowlegable , I love it button Xxx

I might have posted in the wrong part lol but i know someone gets me ,or is reading it, Xox

Like their are people that charge money for readings and they are good their not all bad ....but i mean the ones who ask for money to remove evil from you or karmic debts or cast a spell to remove cancer that type

Also I am only bringing it up because I was asked to pay 99 dollors to remove a karmic debt ,,I thought it was ridiculous when I don't even have bad luck or anything like that...that's how I knew they where trying to just get money from me...sad aye ..I looked at the reviews and their was an old lady on their poor lady ,,,he must have took her money I can tell you guys the name if your interested in checking out what I am talking about if not lol that's ok ..I am off to bed now catch up with every one tommrow night I want to talk about the Bush fires which is terrible where I am...but I think that's enough for one day ....lol I should change my name to miss chatter box hahaha good nite button Xxx

Actually one example is the sharman

Good night my lovlie x