recently my dad asked me if I wanted to go to London with him for 2 nights to visit my brother and I agreed but had a lot of trouble trying to deal with jjs anxiety of being apart from me and also trying to find someone to look after her, shes 14 but doesn't like to be alone.
tried to work it all out with my dad he we all just ended up upset and stressed out.
anyway after a few days my usual babysitter kindly offered to watch her and the pets for me.
I just told my dad I could come with him and he didn't seem very welcoming to that idea, basically said hes not joking his around , his plan is set etc, and just said he didn't know.
now im funny like tht I don't like the vibes so ive decided now I don't wanna go with him at all now lol
but I do want to take advantage of my babysitter watching jj for one night on the 23rd November hopefully ill be fully well by then.
partly so I can have some time for myself for a night and a day , never done that , gone anywhere without a kid in tow as a adult for the night, I think it would be great for me to reflect, destress, recharge etc
but also good for jj to see that I can be apart from her for one night and it is fine and ok and normal, might help her anxiety.
my problem is how I tell my dad this that I don't want to go with him now, also I need to find somewhere to go with limited funds for one night on the 23rd lol, any ideas for places?
tried to work it all out with my dad he we all just ended up upset and stressed out.
anyway after a few days my usual babysitter kindly offered to watch her and the pets for me.
I just told my dad I could come with him and he didn't seem very welcoming to that idea, basically said hes not joking his around , his plan is set etc, and just said he didn't know.
now im funny like tht I don't like the vibes so ive decided now I don't wanna go with him at all now lol
but I do want to take advantage of my babysitter watching jj for one night on the 23rd November hopefully ill be fully well by then.
partly so I can have some time for myself for a night and a day , never done that , gone anywhere without a kid in tow as a adult for the night, I think it would be great for me to reflect, destress, recharge etc
but also good for jj to see that I can be apart from her for one night and it is fine and ok and normal, might help her anxiety.
my problem is how I tell my dad this that I don't want to go with him now, also I need to find somewhere to go with limited funds for one night on the 23rd lol, any ideas for places?