If you're thinking about someone a lot.. is it because they are thinking about you?

I feel like I’m diving in an ocean of uncertain thoughts at this time ..and losing a lot of energy in this trance ..Getting up, doing my tasks and daily projects seem to take such big efforts. Definitely I’m not on the thrive right now. Missing someone so bad .. it hurts.

Amazingly when I have signs from him is like a ray of sunshine brightening my day and I feel recharged, enthusiastic, smiles come back, my mood improves, I feel like another person!

One part of me does like that a lot .. but the other part it’s a little disappointed..
At this point of my life I should be able to know how to cheer myself up and feel content without needing anyone’s attention. I know I have some homework to do in that area for myself.


One day a while ago when we opened our hearts and talked about what we feel for one another, he said he has brought me to his mind so many times .. he was almost embarrased to confess.. I felt so good to know that !.. as I have done the same.
Thats why I am intriguing about the silence and apparently ignoring attitude from him in the past few months from now

I always trust my first feeling. I have had previous confirmations on how my intuition has been very precise. But sometimes the accuracy stomps a little bit .. lol..
especially if I’m filling my mind with too many different scenarios.

So.. would you please give me your inputs?..your “firsts”? would u be able to read what’s going on in my situation? what’s going on..?
My first thoughts are..
1. There is something about his life that he doesn’t want people to know.. he is struggling. Possibly related to his current relationship, but also could be work related.

2. He loves the good understanding and empathetic communication we have but since we have been distant lately he might be afraid of my reaction.. as if I’m going to be upset or something .. not sure but I think he is hesitant.

3. Melancholy is striking.He told me once, this beats him oftentimes. He has tendency of getting depressed. There’s also some emptiness feelings.

4 . In a more uplifting thought. Every thing might be doing just fine but monotonous.He might be overload with work or other demands.

I would like to send a picture for a reading. But how can this be done in a more private way?

Thanks for reading!! your responses are very appreciated!
Take care everyone

Peace2all

You are the sweetest!
I hope you are doing good now. I’ve been in the path of depression as well and definitively can relate to the feelings and closing the doors to others until you perk up... at least that’s what I do.
But it’s true. We might have the sense we did something wrong and we are completely inaccurate about that.

Another thing that just raise at this moment .. and I thought about it before but forgot to mention is that between this person and me there is way too many obstacles and that itself it’s a big source of helplessness and sorrow.
I feel we both have times when we sort of “walk away” but it’s not like giving up about our feelings rather than take a break from our complicated situation.
I’m sure too we will reconnect. It’s glad to know that your input was similar to mine.. it gives me an extra feeling of trust and anticipation.
I’ll be patiently (hopefully) waiting for that moment to arrive.

Thank you again you are very considerate and thoughtful!

“Kind Words are Like a Spring Day”
Thank you for yours

Peace2all





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You are right... silence doesn't mean they've given up on you

Kind words are like a spring day, I love it

Your love and care for this person really shows. He is very lucky to have you, even if you're not talking right now. Very lucky

I gave you an avatar, hope you like it....
you are welcome to add your own in the control panel in future too. : )

I LOVE my avatar!!! thank you!!!

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